docs: Update shutdown instructions and wake-cmd paths

README.md

@@ -23,6 +23,11 @@ Copy-Item target\release\mcp-memory-stub.exe C:\Users\reazul.ashraf\.local\bin\m
 # Add this to your PowerShell profile:
 if (-not (Get-Process mcp-memory-server -ErrorAction SilentlyContinue)) { Start-Process -FilePath "C:\Users\reazul.ashraf\.local\bin\mcp-memory-server.exe" -ArgumentList "--daemon" -WindowStyle Hidden -ErrorAction SilentlyContinue }
 ```
+
+**Shutting Down:** If you need to stop the background daemon (e.g., to replace the executable after a recompile), use the built-in `--exit` flag instead of forcefully killing the process.
+```powershell
+mcp-memory-server.exe --exit
+```
 `
 **Step 2:** Update your Windows ~/.gemini/config/mcp_config.json to point the CLI to the ultra-lightweight stub (since the server is already running in the background):
 `json
@@ -51,7 +56,7 @@ Update your WSL ~/.gemini/config/mcp_config.json:
       "command": "/home/riz/.local/bin/mcp-memory-stub",
       "args": [
         "--target", "http://127.0.0.1:3000",
-        "--wake-cmd", "/mnt/c/Windows/System32/cmd.exe /c start /B C:\\Users\\reazul.ashraf\\.local\\bin\\mcp-memory-server.exe --daemon"
+        "--wake-cmd", "/mnt/c/Users/reazul.ashraf/.local/bin/mcp-memory-server.exe --daemon"
       ]
     }
   }