Docs: Update Effective Discourse instructions for users and agents

README.md

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 mcp-memory acts as the persistent "brain" for the agy CLI agents. It tracks entities, relations, background tasks, engineering debt, and architectural decisions across sessions. 
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 To eliminate heavy Cross-OS I/O penalties when using WSL and Windows simultaneously, mcp-memory operates using a **Dual-Transport Leader/Stub Architecture**:
-*   **The Server (mcp-memory-server)**: Runs natively on the Windows host. It binds to .0.0.0:3000, serving standard stdio to the primary Windows agy instance while simultaneously hosting an Axum HTTP server for secondary clients.
+*   **The Server (mcp-memory-server)**: Runs natively on the Windows host. It binds to 0.0.0.0:3000, serving standard stdio to the primary Windows agy instance while simultaneously hosting an Axum HTTP server for secondary clients.
 *   **The Stub (mcp-memory-stub)**: An ultra-lightweight proxy binary. WSL agy instances run this native Linux stub, which transparently pipes stdio JSON-RPC traffic over the network to the Windows HTTP server (http://127.0.0.1:3000), completely bypassing WSL NTFS mounts. It features full MPSC queue buffering and a WebSocket reconnect handshake (notifications/tools/list_changed) so that tools automatically refresh seamlessly without disconnecting the CLI if the background server restarts.
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+> **Note for Users & LLMs**: Please read the [Effective Discourse Guide](./EFFECTIVE_DISCOURSE.md) to learn which natural language phrases to use to perfectly trigger this server's advanced MCP tools.
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 ## Quick Start & Usage